Are you unsure if you should send your client a proposal or a contract? Contracts and proposals have very different purposes, so the secret to knowing which one you should send is figuring out why you are sending it.
By the end of this video, you’ll know:
- When you should send a proposal
- When you should send a contract
- The limited circumstances you can combine them into one document
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Do you waffle:
Should I send my client a contract? Or should I send them a proposal? Which one is right for this situation?
By the end, you’ll know exactly:
- when you should send a proposal
- when you should send a contract
- the limited circumstances you can combine them into one document
This week’s question comes to us from Mary in New York. Mary asks,
When should I send a proposal and when should I send a contract?
Contracts and proposals have different purposes
A contract and a proposal have two completely different purposes.
And understanding the purpose of what you’re sending and what stage you’re at in the relationship, is the secret to knowing which one you’re going to send.
The purpose of a proposal

A proposal is a sales tool.
It’s there to tell your client,
This is how I can solve your problem.
Your proposal should cover:
- you need this done
- this is how I can get where you want to be
- this is how much it’s going to cost you
A proposal is there to further the relationship because it’s primarily a sales tool.
Yes, your proposal might have some options. You could explain the high-touch service and the budget service.
In addition to having different price points, you might include a general workflow about how you see the project progressing.
But ultimately, the goal of a proposal is to get your potential client to say,
Yes, let’s work together.
Your proposal isn’t there to dive into the nitty-gritty about exactly what it looks like to work together. It isn’t there to explain how you can solve any problems that crop up.
Your proposal is there to open the door to have additional conversations about what it looks like to work together.
The purpose of a contract

A contract has a completely different purpose.
A contract is there to get everyone on the same page, by literally getting everyone on the same page.
A contract is there to explain the roles and responsibilities.
It’s there to explain the nitty-gritty of the day in and day out process of working together.
I like to say that a contract is there to make sure that you’re not unintentionally disappointing your clients.
We’ve all worked with those clients who have completely unreasonable expectations about what you’re going to do for the cost.
And a contract assures that you and your client have similar understandings about:
- what the process looks like
- what you will do
- what you need from them (payment and otherwise)
That’s the purpose of your contract: to make sure everyone is on the same page about what the relationship is going to look like from a nitty-gritty standpoint.
A proposal is a 10,000-foot view, your contract has all of the trees in it.
When you might combine them
What are the limited circumstances where you might combine them?

The most common reason is situations like Frank the Freelancer.
Frank creates memorable first impressions online by doing brand and website design.
Frank only offers one package.
On his website, he describes his package. Frank’s package is that he designs a single website at a time and does the entire project, start to finish, in four weeks.
Which means his services page, kind of functions as a proposal. Because it explains:
- what his package includes
- how he works
- what the process looks like
Then on his services page, you can click the “Contact Me” button to tell Frank you are interested.
At that point, he schedules a 15-minute phone call with you to make sure that it’s a good fit and that you’ll enjoy working together. (And for Frank to make sure, you are at a point that you are ready for this kind of package.)
If you both agree, then Frank follows the call up with his combined “proposal and contract.”
This format works really well if you:
- only have a single offering
- “preclear” potential clients before sending the document over
How I do it
Most of us aren’t like Frank.
So we’re going send a proposal that outlines how the relationship will work.
Then we’ll ask our potential client to let us know if it sounds good.
And finally, send over the contract.
This proposal doesn’t have to be long and detailed.
In fact, for my law firm, they usually are just an email that bullets potential projects and the costs associated each.
You don’t have to do something long and complicated.
You only need to convey important information and keep the conversation going.
Then once you’ve gotten on the same page about how you’re going to help your client and get them to their end goal, then you’ll send a contract.
And this contract will cover the nitty-gritty of what it looks like to work together.
How are you going to create this contract?
I’ve got two resources for you:
- a 4600+ word article that breaks down 17 sections that you might want to consider including in your contract (or leave your info below)
- a course, available exclusively in the artist’s Courtyard, designed to help you step-by-step create your contract and includes multiple contract templates (including a freelance and coaching contract!)

Write your contract!
Curious what your contract should include?
Enter your information below to download a PDF version of my how to write a contract resource. It includes a checklist of the 17 sections I think you should consider when creating (or updating) your contract.Your privacy is important to us. Learn how we protect it here.
When do you think you’ll use a proposal and a contract separately? And when do you think it might make sense to have them together?